The kinky blog of an aging Dom, widowed not long before COVID, engaged to @GreenGypsyLady. Oregonian, Navy vet, patriot, Quaker, feminist, pro-choice, Democrat. -- The only times you can be sure I'm talking straight and not roleplaying are here in my blog description and when I preface a statement with "OOC", meaning "Out Of Character". Black Lives Matter. The feelings of Fascists don't. Women own their own bodies unless they voluntarily enter into a submissive relationship. Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Nonbinary people are nonbinary. Fire burns things. Ice is cold. Ice belongs in our drinks, not at our border. -- In fantasy, I'm into various things, including maledom, social demotion and amitery (the domination of a mature woman by a younger person). -- If you're under 18 or a Nazi or some other kind of person who shouldn't be on BDSMLR at all, you shouldn't be on my blog. Beat it. -- If you object to my use of your photo or art, I'll delete. -- If you're a "Republican", set your filter to block posts tagged "#Politics" to save yourself heartache. Or don't visit this page. I'm okay with either one. #RIPGOP